"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Can you call this a flake or not?

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So i have contact for years already with a girl from abroad. First time we met was a short meeting and we made out. We had a few other meetings during the years but nothing happened because both or at least one of us was in an ltr. Now we are both single and meet up in another country for a weekend. We booked our flights but the problem is the accomodation. She definitely wants a single room for her own because she says she sleeps awfull with other people in the room. To me BS and very annoying because i don't like to pay far much more for accomodations!
So, can you call this a flake? And does this mean her interest level is low? Well, at least, she wants to go on holiday with me and i feel there is more. But i am aware that it is possible that i mix up reality and my thoughts.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lol. Stop anaylising.

She probably just doesn't want to appear whorish. Pay for the room, get there, and game her so she wants to come back to yours!
 
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WesCottII said:
Lol. Stop anaylising.

She probably just doesn't want to appear whorish. Pay for the room, get there, and game her so she wants to come back to yours!
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Some DJ's with other opinions here? I agree i have this problem that i (over) analyze. I want to get rid of that.
 
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LittleBigOne said:
So i have contact for years already with a girl from abroad. First time we met was a short meeting and we made out. We had a few other meetings during the years but nothing happened because both or at least one of us was in an ltr. Now we are both single and meet up in another country for a weekend. We booked our flights but the problem is the accomodation. She definitely wants a single room for her own because she says she sleeps awfull with other people in the room. To me BS and very annoying because i don't like to pay far much more for accomodations!
So, can you call this a flake? And does this mean her interest level is low? Well, at least, she wants to go on holiday with me and i feel there is more. But i am aware that it is possible that i mix up reality and my thoughts.
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Let her do this. If the chemistry is right, and she is drunk enough she will land up in her room, or you in hers. If it is not right, you will get the "We're better off as friends" speech.
 
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