“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Can you call this a flake or not?

LittleBigOne

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So i have contact for years already with a girl from abroad. First time we met was a short meeting and we made out. We had a few other meetings during the years but nothing happened because both or at least one of us was in an ltr. Now we are both single and meet up in another country for a weekend. We booked our flights but the problem is the accomodation. She definitely wants a single room for her own because she says she sleeps awfull with other people in the room. To me BS and very annoying because i don't like to pay far much more for accomodations!
So, can you call this a flake? And does this mean her interest level is low? Well, at least, she wants to go on holiday with me and i feel there is more. But i am aware that it is possible that i mix up reality and my thoughts.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WesCottII

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Lol. Stop anaylising.

She probably just doesn't want to appear whorish. Pay for the room, get there, and game her so she wants to come back to yours!
 

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WesCottII said:
Lol. Stop anaylising.

She probably just doesn't want to appear whorish. Pay for the room, get there, and game her so she wants to come back to yours!

Some DJ's with other opinions here? I agree i have this problem that i (over) analyze. I want to get rid of that.
 

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LittleBigOne said:
So i have contact for years already with a girl from abroad. First time we met was a short meeting and we made out. We had a few other meetings during the years but nothing happened because both or at least one of us was in an ltr. Now we are both single and meet up in another country for a weekend. We booked our flights but the problem is the accomodation. She definitely wants a single room for her own because she says she sleeps awfull with other people in the room. To me BS and very annoying because i don't like to pay far much more for accomodations!
So, can you call this a flake? And does this mean her interest level is low? Well, at least, she wants to go on holiday with me and i feel there is more. But i am aware that it is possible that i mix up reality and my thoughts.
Let her do this. If the chemistry is right, and she is drunk enough she will land up in her room, or you in hers. If it is not right, you will get the "We're better off as friends" speech.
 
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