When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yet at the same time women say that they can. I’m thinking about what if they second guy she had sex with was a ONS, then if she’s be a bit more clingy to him or put herself around him more than she would otherwise. I could see that because she has less experience but the again it is a ONS, but I think it really just depends upon her social experiences in general.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If men had options, then they definitely would whether they had hella experience or not. Women always have more options than men yet everyone tells you how the lower her partner count, the more likely she is able to bond with you.
Even guys who are cool with women having many partners will admit that.