Can women separate emotion from sex like men?

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Now obviously your average pornstar and prostitute probably could, but what about most chicks? Or is it just that they take a lesser part of you with them the more ****s they’ve had? How tf does an open relationship on a woman’s end work without them getting mentally ****ed after a while? Swingers? Or is it just that they’re unhappy with their man in some way because he isn’t sizing up? And how is it that most chicks are bisexual even if they don’t initially know it/think they are?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Yes they can but it's not a good sign for a LTR

All of them or only some?

 

[Billtx49]

All of them or only some?

If she can seperate sex from the feel good emotional part of it under normal circumstances there’s something seriously wrong or she’s a business mindset hooker…

 

[greatsnake]

I knew a girl like this and she was a total nutcase.

 

[Trump]

Can women separate emotion from sex like men?

Who says men can?

90% of men fall in love with any young half decent looking girl. Heck, half of movie stars do.
But Sosuave members are real men. SS men are strong alpha men who dispose of hot movie actresses at the first sign of disrespect.

 

[lizardking82]

Even pornstars are people like the rest of us. Sometimes you notice pornstars getting quite wet when they are about to have sex with a certain guy they find more masculine or they feel more attracted to. Even when and if done for pleasure reasons and not reproduction, sex is perceived by the brain as a reproduction act and that is why every mechanism works the same way as if you were selecting a partner to have kids with.

Women's orgasm happens very close to their partner's when he is an "alpha" male or when they perceive as one, when their orgasm happens, the walls of the vagina and the uretra contract in a way that makes it easier for sperm to start its travel. Nothing is casual in nature. That is why you will often see pornstars that are almost dry when having sex with another pornstar. They might be having it, but subconsciously, they don't see him as a good mate.

Sex is quite emotional since it has to do with the basic function of reproduction and it cannot be separated from emotion, neither from women who are emotional creatures, nor from men who are less emotional, but still instinctual and still part of nature.

 

[sazc]

I can't separates emotion from sex so, no, not "all" women can.

I have girlfriends who can separate sex from emotions and they all have histories of sexual abuse. I have none of that.

I guess that relationships (LTRs, marriages) that go "open" contain two people who have decided (believe) that they can separate sex from emotions. Sometimes it works, sometimes it's a disaster.

 

[lizardking82]

Meaning, it is not only the fact she has an orgasm or not, cause men are quite fixated with this part, it is a much more complex matter. How wet is she? Does she have an orgasm 1 minute or less in accordance with yours? There are cases when women have sex and they think of another man while having it with this man and it is sure they are not going to orgasm close to his orgasm. They are instinctively lowering pregnancy chances to this set of genes by doing that, they are not even close to in control of that.

 

[greatsnake]

Even pornstars are people like the rest of us. Sometimes you notice pornstars getting quite wet when they are about to have sex with a certain guy they find more masculine or they feel more attracted to. Even when and if done for pleasure reasons and not reproduction, sex is perceived by the brain as a reproduction act and that is why every mechanism works the same way as if you were selecting a partner to have kids with.

Women's orgasm happens very close to their partner's when he is an "alpha" male or when they perceive as one, when their orgasm happens, the walls of the vagina and the uretra contract in a way that makes it easier for sperm to start its travel. Nothing is casual in nature. That is why you will often see pornstars that are almost dry when having sex with another pornstar. They might be having it, but subconsciously, they don't see him as a good mate.

Sex is quite emotional since it has to do with the basic function of reproduction and it cannot be separated from emotion, neither from women who are emotional creatures, nor from men who are less emotional, but still instinctual and still part of nature.

I think the OP was trying to ask if a woman can separate the love/bonding feelings like a man can during sex.

The nutjob that I mentioned would say “sex is just sex, but making love is different”

 

[lizardking82]

I think the OP was trying to ask if a woman can separate the love/bonding feelings like a man can during sex.

The nutjob that I mentioned would say “sex is just sex, but making love is different”

They cannot. Because even sex for fun is perceived as a mating process by the reptilian part of the brain, women go back to their basic mode where they want to bond with this man in direct need of him to ensure survival of their kids after they get born. This whole bonding thing women wanna do is quite ancient, comes from times where men would not always hang around the cave and provide safety and food for the mother and the kids. It is the same thing today, just modern version.

Men, on the other hand, when they let their seed in, have, in their reptilian brain, completed their duty. Of course we almost never just leave after it cause other parts of our brain come into play where we can differentiate if it was for fun or for having kids, but at a deep, basic level, this all is pushed by survival mechanisms much stronger than anything our lymbic brain and neocortex can affect. Reptilian brain rules, with a touch of the other two I mentioned.

 

[Spidah]

You gotta be kidding me.

Of course women separate emotion from sex. Women are hoes. That's the big secret and ain't a secret.

Listen up, don't you guys know sex is a tool women use to control men?

What do you think a fuking prostitute is? You think those bitches get emotional when they fuk for money? Ok then.. why would a woman get emotional when she fuks for kids or fuks for emotional power over a soft ass beta male?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Who says men can?

90% of men fall in love with any young half decent looking girl. Heck, half of movie stars do.
But Sosuave members are real men. SS men are strong alpha men who dispose of hot movie actresses at the first sign of disrespect.

I do. Now quit trolling with the passive aggressive posts like a ***** and contribute to the damn discussion or gtfo.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

You gotta be kidding me.

Of course women separate emotion from sex. Women are hoes. That's the big secret and ain't a secret.

Listen up, don't you guys know sex is a tool women use to control men?

What do you think a fuking prostitute is? You think those bitches get emotional when they fuk for money? Ok then.. why would a woman get emotional when she fuks for kids or fuks for emotional power over a soft ass beta male?

Okay it’s official: you’re stupid. Their subconscious urges control their emotions and that controls them. Theses urges are based off certain attributes. It is not done consciously. Prostitution is done consciously though.

 

[Spidah]

Okay it’s official: you’re stupid. Their subconscious urges control their emotions and that controls them. Theses urges are based off certain attributes. It is not done consciously. Prostitution is done consciously though.

Yeah you wish.

Listen man, women are hoes and only stupid ass manipulated betas don't know it. Women will agree with you and laugh at your stupid ass at the same time for believing that bullshyt you just said.

You know a beta male by his need to attack men and defend women. Bonafide.

 

[Trump]

I do. Now quit trolling with the passive aggressive posts like a ***** and contribute to the damn discussion or gtfo.

A relationship consultant featured in the NEW YORK TIMES, BRITISH BROADCASTING CORPORATION, AND FORTUNE MAGAZINE begs to differ. But hey, what does he know.

https://www.jordangrayconsulting.com/2014/05/3-damaging-myths-about-sex-lives-of-men/

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Yeah you wish.

Listen man, women are hoes and only stupid ass manipulated betas don't know it. Women will agree with you and laugh at your stupid ass at the same time for believing that bullshyt you just said.

You know a beta male by his need to attack men and defend women. Bonafide.

No. But I can tell you that alphas give no ****s because they only do. They aren’t so caught up in their heads trying to believe what other people want them to believe. You feel like I attacked you because I disagreed with the stupid **** you said. That’s weakness. You have no reason to think the things you do other than just ‘all of them are like this and that is it hurr durr’. What a dumb ass excuse. Wake up. You’re a salty 35 year old manchild. Just cuz bitches like sex and get horny like men doesn’t mean they’re all hoes. It means they’re people. If they’re cheaters on decent guys, then they’re hoes. But if they leave a chump because he talks **** about women on the internet all day calling them hoes and sleeps with a guy like me, that don’t make her one. Stupid ass.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

A relationship consultant featured in the NEW YORK TIMES, BRITISH BROADCASTING CORPORATION, AND FORTUNE MAGAZINE begs to differ. But hey, what does he know.

https://www.jordangrayconsulting.com/2014/05/3-damaging-myths-about-sex-lives-of-men/

Because men don’t know themselves. They’ve lost their masculinity. I’ve regained touch with mine. And many of the guys here have too. That’s the difference.

Men who cannot separate sex from emotional bond either aren’t horny enough, don’t have very many options, lack the strong social skills, or don’t know how to express their sexuality because they haven’t figured themselves out yet. Many men are monogamous and are relationship-minded (in huge part due to social conditioning), but many have just been forced to suppress their polygamous desire. I say this because sex for men is an urge and sex for women is mental (until you get rid of their shyness).

And I trust my biology professors with PhDs than some random dude talking about ‘love’. Trump, I am talking about the nature aspect of things. Ypu voting this guy means that you are talking about the nurture aspect. You can undo decades of social conditioning in several months of intense reconditioning of yourself back into WHAT you are. Just ask RangerMike.

 

[AJ84]

It really depends on the context:

Drunken one night stand - she will probably forget his name the next day and not care.
Using some unattractive guy for money - she will go through the motions of sex but not be emotionally (or even physically) connected because she's just doing it for the money.
Revenge sex - sleeping with someone else's guy, or her ex's best buddy, no emotional cares there, just doing it to cause problems.
Conformity sex - everyone else is paired off doing it (think spring break) and she doesn't want to be left out so.....
Pity sex - she feels bad that he's so nice but all alone and and well, it's Christmas/his birthday/ the anniversary of his mother's death and he really has been so sweet so why not 'thank' him.
Dating that leads to sex and more dating - likely emotions will come into play if she likes the guy enough and he has tapped into whatever makes her click. This can happen quickly or slowly, depending on the girl and depending on what happens immediately after the sex.

 

[AJ84]

Because men don’t know themselves. They’ve lost their masculinity. I’ve regained touch with mine. And many of the guys here have too. That’s the difference.

Men who cannot separate sex from emotional bond either aren’t horny enough, don’t have very many options, lack the strong social skills, or don’t know how to express their sexuality because they haven’t figured themselves out yet. Many men are monogamous and are relationship-minded (in huge part due to social conditioning), but many have just been forced to suppress their polygamous desire. I say this because sex for men is an urge and sex for women is mental (until you get rid of their shyness).

And I trust my biology professors with PhDs than some random dude talking about ‘love’. Trump, I am talking about the nature aspect of things. Ypu voting this guy means that you are talking about the nurture aspect. You can undo decades of social conditioning in several months of intense reconditioning of yourself back into WHAT you are. Just ask RangerMike.

If you're talking about the nature of things, then actually, monogamy is not natural for men or women, but that's probably a topic for another thread.

 

[AJ84]

They cannot. Because even sex for fun is perceived as a mating process by the reptilian part of the brain, women go back to their basic mode where they want to bond with this man in direct need of him to ensure survival of their kids after they get born. This whole bonding thing women wanna do is quite ancient, comes from times where men would not always hang around the cave and provide safety and food for the mother and the kids. It is the same thing today, just modern version.

Men, on the other hand, when they let their seed in, have, in their reptilian brain, completed their duty. Of course we almost never just leave after it cause other parts of our brain come into play where we can differentiate if it was for fun or for having kids, but at a deep, basic level, this all is pushed by survival mechanisms much stronger than anything our lymbic brain and neocortex can affect. Reptilian brain rules, with a touch of the other two I mentioned.

I get what you're saying for relationships but I'm afraid you're giving women too much credit around catching warm and fuzzy feelings and wanting to nest after sex. It really depends on the context.

The girl, pushed up against a bathroom wall at 2am in some bar with her pants down around her ankles isn't thinking of bonding or nesting, sorry to disappoint