Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Besides that...Alle_Gory said:Yeah... not a good idea.
It would just be far too easy for the kids & newbies to post their unfounded opinions. And other kids & newbies could make financial decisions based on such opinions.
This can lead to financial ruin.
I was under the impression sosuave was about bettering your life and women fall into that category. Living the Don Jaun Life style.SoSuave was orginally created solely for the purpose of helping teach both younger & older men how to get better with women -------> nothing else!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It's just as easy for the same folks to post unfounded opinions at other forums. Successful people aren't spoonfed information and they don't rely on others to hold their hands; they're independent, critical thinkers. BS is easy to spot when you're careful.Alle_Gory said:It would just be far too easy for the kids & newbies to post their unfounded opinions. And other kids & newbies could make financial decisions based on such opinions. This can lead to financial ruin.
I hate to pull the join-date card on you, but that's only true of the website. Regardless, DJs move beyond their origins. This isn't the Middle Ages.OTB said:SoSuave was orginally created solely for the purpose of helping teach both younger & older men how to get better with women -------> nothing else!
I'm one of the subject-matter experts at LinkedIn Answers. I'm sure there are folks here with questions about business, even questions about business education, that they might want answered without either exposing themselves to potential employers or having to go somewhere else.DarkShade said:Why not post on a board that is full of experts?
Nice. I'm looking for investors & market analysts. Know a forum?DarkShade said:Why not post on a board that is full of experts? I browse www.creditboards.com often
Exactly. Except with women, its almost impossible to blow all your money in one sitting.Listen Bro, many people on this site don't even know what they're talking about when it comes to women!
And then you expect them to give you sound financial advice???
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.