When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Besides that...Alle_Gory said:Yeah... not a good idea.
It would just be far too easy for the kids & newbies to post their unfounded opinions. And other kids & newbies could make financial decisions based on such opinions.
This can lead to financial ruin.
I was under the impression sosuave was about bettering your life and women fall into that category. Living the Don Jaun Life style.SoSuave was orginally created solely for the purpose of helping teach both younger & older men how to get better with women -------> nothing else!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It's just as easy for the same folks to post unfounded opinions at other forums. Successful people aren't spoonfed information and they don't rely on others to hold their hands; they're independent, critical thinkers. BS is easy to spot when you're careful.Alle_Gory said:It would just be far too easy for the kids & newbies to post their unfounded opinions. And other kids & newbies could make financial decisions based on such opinions. This can lead to financial ruin.
I hate to pull the join-date card on you, but that's only true of the website. Regardless, DJs move beyond their origins. This isn't the Middle Ages.OTB said:SoSuave was orginally created solely for the purpose of helping teach both younger & older men how to get better with women -------> nothing else!
I'm one of the subject-matter experts at LinkedIn Answers. I'm sure there are folks here with questions about business, even questions about business education, that they might want answered without either exposing themselves to potential employers or having to go somewhere else.DarkShade said:Why not post on a board that is full of experts?
Nice. I'm looking for investors & market analysts. Know a forum?DarkShade said:Why not post on a board that is full of experts? I browse www.creditboards.com often
Exactly. Except with women, its almost impossible to blow all your money in one sitting.Listen Bro, many people on this site don't even know what they're talking about when it comes to women!
And then you expect them to give you sound financial advice???
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.