"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Can we get a business/finance forum?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It would just be far too easy for the kids & newbies to post their unfounded opinions. And other kids & newbies could make financial decisions based on such opinions.
This can lead to financial ruin.
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Besides that...Alle_Gory said:
SoSuave was orginally created solely for the purpose of helping teach both younger & older men how to get better with women -------> nothing else!
If a whole new section about business & finance were to be added on this forumn,
I think that it would naturally only distract new users & AFCs from the main task at hand
If you actually are in dire need of financial advisement, I suggest you find the multitude of other online forums & resources whole specialize in that area of expertise
Listen Bro, many people on this site don't even know what they're talking about when it comes to women!
And then you expect them to give you sound financial advice??? :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
I was under the impression sosuave was about bettering your life and women fall into that category. Living the Don Jaun Life style.
I do agree though a financial section would be bad. If you have a question start a thread in the anything else section or visit an already existing financial forum im sure they exist
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
It's just as easy for the same folks to post unfounded opinions at other forums. Successful people aren't spoonfed information and they don't rely on others to hold their hands; they're independent, critical thinkers. BS is easy to spot when you're careful.Alle_Gory said:
I hate to pull the join-date card on you, but that's only true of the website. Regardless, DJs move beyond their origins. This isn't the Middle Ages.OTB said:
I'm one of the subject-matter experts at LinkedIn Answers. I'm sure there are folks here with questions about business, even questions about business education, that they might want answered without either exposing themselves to potential employers or having to go somewhere else.DarkShade said:
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Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
jmchavz
Don Juan
Demon said:
:cuss: NUFF SAID
AFC on da loose!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hockey Playa
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.