"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Can We Be Too Much?

captn caveman

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Posting and posting...

got bored at work..

Remembered saturday..

This girl, one of three babes, is checking me out all the time, I look at her..

When she passes by me, I say

"Stop". - Did not approach directly, was busy with buddies and other ladies that nite...

Looks at me and continues...

Happens two times, on the last one she says "Never"...

Continues checking me out, but the I forget about her, am after some russian babe who turns out to be psycho...

Anyway, near the end of the nite, the first babe goes out with some afc..

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Another one,

Oneninety tall model.. 22 years.. known her for 3 years.. shot me down three years ago.. saw her again, me no afc anymore, ****ed her mind.. She offered me a chair, I knew she wanted to play, so I refused, and went to my buddies..

See her on saturday..

Gives me a hug..

I ask, she is back?

She says no, but will be back in summer, and I shall call her..

I said I do not have her number.. I can give mine, and she call me when she comes for summer...

Says no, I should take her number...

I say, if we will not meet this week, I will not need the number, and am not waiting for summer. She can call me...

Leaves giving me a kiss...

Later leaves with drunk afc, over 35...
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Now in the bar, I am confident, and am quite above the average.

And am quite independent...

Seem quite active...

So, question is, do these women have control issues?

They know they cannot control you, they settle for less?

This happens a lot...

You confident, funny and sexy, are too much for her for a onenite stand... She knows she will want more, and she won't get it.. Not the control at least, and chooses less...



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After reading the replies,

Have to say that, have been living here for three years, and the place still makes no****ing sense,

So do not expect you guys to make sense of this at all....
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DankNuggs

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You say every guy who leaves the bar with your target is an AFC...Sounds like none of these guys are frustrated to me...
 

Porky

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no kidding. if a girl leaves with a different guy he's an AFC? hey man, he got poon that night =)
 

Trogdawg

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"You make no ****ing sense.."

I'll second that.

"ME TARZAN, YOU JANE." "UGH UGH"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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