"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can We Be Too Much?

captn caveman

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Posting and posting...

got bored at work..

Remembered saturday..

This girl, one of three babes, is checking me out all the time, I look at her..

When she passes by me, I say

"Stop". - Did not approach directly, was busy with buddies and other ladies that nite...

Looks at me and continues...

Happens two times, on the last one she says "Never"...

Continues checking me out, but the I forget about her, am after some russian babe who turns out to be psycho...

Anyway, near the end of the nite, the first babe goes out with some afc..

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Another one,

Oneninety tall model.. 22 years.. known her for 3 years.. shot me down three years ago.. saw her again, me no afc anymore, ****ed her mind.. She offered me a chair, I knew she wanted to play, so I refused, and went to my buddies..

See her on saturday..

Gives me a hug..

I ask, she is back?

She says no, but will be back in summer, and I shall call her..

I said I do not have her number.. I can give mine, and she call me when she comes for summer...

Says no, I should take her number...

I say, if we will not meet this week, I will not need the number, and am not waiting for summer. She can call me...

Leaves giving me a kiss...

Later leaves with drunk afc, over 35...
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Now in the bar, I am confident, and am quite above the average.

And am quite independent...

Seem quite active...

So, question is, do these women have control issues?

They know they cannot control you, they settle for less?

This happens a lot...

You confident, funny and sexy, are too much for her for a onenite stand... She knows she will want more, and she won't get it.. Not the control at least, and chooses less...



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After reading the replies,

Have to say that, have been living here for three years, and the place still makes no****ing sense,

So do not expect you guys to make sense of this at all....
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DankNuggs

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You say every guy who leaves the bar with your target is an AFC...Sounds like none of these guys are frustrated to me...
 

Porky

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no kidding. if a girl leaves with a different guy he's an AFC? hey man, he got poon that night =)
 

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"You make no ****ing sense.."

I'll second that.

"ME TARZAN, YOU JANE." "UGH UGH"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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