"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Can We Be Too Much?

captn caveman

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Posting and posting...

got bored at work..

Remembered saturday..

This girl, one of three babes, is checking me out all the time, I look at her..

When she passes by me, I say

"Stop". - Did not approach directly, was busy with buddies and other ladies that nite...

Looks at me and continues...

Happens two times, on the last one she says "Never"...

Continues checking me out, but the I forget about her, am after some russian babe who turns out to be psycho...

Anyway, near the end of the nite, the first babe goes out with some afc..

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Another one,

Oneninety tall model.. 22 years.. known her for 3 years.. shot me down three years ago.. saw her again, me no afc anymore, ****ed her mind.. She offered me a chair, I knew she wanted to play, so I refused, and went to my buddies..

See her on saturday..

Gives me a hug..

I ask, she is back?

She says no, but will be back in summer, and I shall call her..

I said I do not have her number.. I can give mine, and she call me when she comes for summer...

Says no, I should take her number...

I say, if we will not meet this week, I will not need the number, and am not waiting for summer. She can call me...

Leaves giving me a kiss...

Later leaves with drunk afc, over 35...
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Now in the bar, I am confident, and am quite above the average.

And am quite independent...

Seem quite active...

So, question is, do these women have control issues?

They know they cannot control you, they settle for less?

This happens a lot...

You confident, funny and sexy, are too much for her for a onenite stand... She knows she will want more, and she won't get it.. Not the control at least, and chooses less...



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After reading the replies,

Have to say that, have been living here for three years, and the place still makes no****ing sense,

So do not expect you guys to make sense of this at all....
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DankNuggs

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You say every guy who leaves the bar with your target is an AFC...Sounds like none of these guys are frustrated to me...
 

Porky

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no kidding. if a girl leaves with a different guy he's an AFC? hey man, he got poon that night =)
 

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"You make no ****ing sense.."

I'll second that.

"ME TARZAN, YOU JANE." "UGH UGH"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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