"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Can u train on a cold?

rushing dude 123

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I have a cold, its not to bad, but not to great either. u know runny nose and occasional coughs. Can u train on this like boxing or maybe a less intense sport like yoga. someone send if i train i am pumping virus through heart, but if i am doing yoga i am kind of i relaxed state so wud it matter?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Quagmire911

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Yoga should be ok if it is low intensity. Boxing might put to much strain on your body and make you worse.

I have something right now, probably a cold, so I am taking tomorrow of the gym and hoping to go on Sunday instead. Will not rush it though.

Just be sensible.

Quagmire
 

spesmilitis

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I lift if my sickness does not cause any stamina issues such as headaches or throat mucus. If its just a stuffynose/sorethroat, working out helps actually.

I just do strength training at around 70% of what I usually lift with only 1 set per exercise. I spend around 15-25 minutes excluding warming up.

Like quag said, if it makes you feel worse, stop.
 

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Do you feel good or not?

I really don't know what it means. I had a sore throat and still went twice this week with it and things are fine. Now the sore throat is gone. Do you FEEL like you can lift or not and you just looking for an excuse to pansy out? sometimes you feel bad and show up at the gym and everything is fine.

My damn roommate brought home strep throat (he and his gf both have it) and i got a LITTLE sore but defeated it within 3 days because i eat vitamin c, vegetables, take glutamine, and am healthy in general. My immune system kicks ass. He and his fat gf are moping around.

sorry kinda giddy and posting at 2:20am. Rare night that i drank and met a steeler fan at the bar and she's goin with me to a sports bar sunday to watch the game. i rule... she's cute.
 

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mrRuckus said:
My damn roommate brought home strep throat (he and his gf both have it) and i got a LITTLE sore but defeated it within 3 days because i eat vitamin c, vegetables, take glutamine, and am healthy in general. My immune system kicks ass. He and his fat gf are moping around.
That's your fault for kissing him.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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