She saw me skateboarding and I dunno if she was impressed. So the next time I see her maybe Ill say: So how was my skateboarding on a scale from 1-10. 1 being good and 10 being good? (A little CF?) Anyways could that just be my opener?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Can this be my opener?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
lol you might confuse her but go ahead if you think you can pull it off.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
"So how did you like my skateboarding on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being awesome and 10 being kick @$$? Please be as honest as you possibly can."
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That confident approach is the only way to go about it. ^comic_relief said:"So how did you like my skateboarding on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being awesome and 10 being kick @$$? Please be as honest as you possibly can."
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Any way else seems too desparate, seeking approval a bit too much.
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Witty, I like itcomic_relief said:"So how did you like my skateboarding on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being awesome and 10 being kick @$$? Please be as honest as you possibly can."
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
You: So, I saw you watching me skateboard the other day. Here's a piece of paper with my name and number on it. Think about how much that'll be worth in the future! Later.
Money in the bank son. One of the only times I would condole giving your number rather than asking for one.
Money in the bank son. One of the only times I would condole giving your number rather than asking for one.
I find that often a lot of guys overdo the whole opening thing. ****y funny lines are overused, an opener is just meant to OPEN. If you think you have better chance at a decent conversation with something simpler than your C+F opener, use it instead.
Not every opener must be ****y funny, with a time constraint and all that other crap. Even less so when you're in High School and the Game is completely different.
Not every opener must be ****y funny, with a time constraint and all that other crap. Even less so when you're in High School and the Game is completely different.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
thats fine. or ask her "hey want to try" then talk to her.