"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Can this be my opener?

zack77766

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She saw me skateboarding and I dunno if she was impressed. So the next time I see her maybe Ill say: So how was my skateboarding on a scale from 1-10. 1 being good and 10 being good? (A little CF?) Anyways could that just be my opener?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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lol you might confuse her but go ahead if you think you can pull it off.
 

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"So how did you like my skateboarding on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being awesome and 10 being kick @$$? Please be as honest as you possibly can."

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LostAndConfused

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comic_relief said:
"So how did you like my skateboarding on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being awesome and 10 being kick @$$? Please be as honest as you possibly can."

comic_relief
That confident approach is the only way to go about it. ^

Any way else seems too desparate, seeking approval a bit too much.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Supremo

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You: So, I saw you watching me skateboard the other day. Here's a piece of paper with my name and number on it. Think about how much that'll be worth in the future! Later.

Money in the bank son. One of the only times I would condole giving your number rather than asking for one.
 

Lust

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I find that often a lot of guys overdo the whole opening thing. ****y funny lines are overused, an opener is just meant to OPEN. If you think you have better chance at a decent conversation with something simpler than your C+F opener, use it instead.

Not every opener must be ****y funny, with a time constraint and all that other crap. Even less so when you're in High School and the Game is completely different.
 

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just say hi, if u see her a few times before, u guys probabaly recognize each other, so u can use any line as an opener...
 
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