She saw me skateboarding and I dunno if she was impressed. So the next time I see her maybe Ill say: So how was my skateboarding on a scale from 1-10. 1 being good and 10 being good? (A little CF?) Anyways could that just be my opener?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Can this be my opener?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
lol you might confuse her but go ahead if you think you can pull it off.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
"So how did you like my skateboarding on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being awesome and 10 being kick @$$? Please be as honest as you possibly can."
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That confident approach is the only way to go about it. ^comic_relief said:"So how did you like my skateboarding on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being awesome and 10 being kick @$$? Please be as honest as you possibly can."
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Any way else seems too desparate, seeking approval a bit too much.
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Witty, I like itcomic_relief said:"So how did you like my skateboarding on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being awesome and 10 being kick @$$? Please be as honest as you possibly can."
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Supremo
Senior Don Juan
You: So, I saw you watching me skateboard the other day. Here's a piece of paper with my name and number on it. Think about how much that'll be worth in the future! Later.
Money in the bank son. One of the only times I would condole giving your number rather than asking for one.
Money in the bank son. One of the only times I would condole giving your number rather than asking for one.
I find that often a lot of guys overdo the whole opening thing. ****y funny lines are overused, an opener is just meant to OPEN. If you think you have better chance at a decent conversation with something simpler than your C+F opener, use it instead.
Not every opener must be ****y funny, with a time constraint and all that other crap. Even less so when you're in High School and the Game is completely different.
Not every opener must be ****y funny, with a time constraint and all that other crap. Even less so when you're in High School and the Game is completely different.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
thats fine. or ask her "hey want to try" then talk to her.