johnmich
Senior Don Juan
yea i thought that too. You are a massive dude with a sharp dress sense that makes you stand out
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
chetori? farsi baladee?Bahram36 said:So who is everyone else on this forum ?? Always interesting to see faces behind the names...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Amen brother!chickenlegs03 said:man eenjam chon daram game behtar yad meegeeram. benazar meeyad toh game daree. een bacheh deevooneh haroh velkon, faghat baladan chertopert began... boro beeshtar toor bezan.![]()
Wsup bro... Yeah OC has a crapload of Persians, a good and a bad thing... Thanks for the complements and yeah I know exactly what youre saying about een aghab-mundehah ... Faghat baladan besheenan keer tuh dast chert began...chickenlegs03 said:chetori? farsi baladee?
i have no idea who the guy is you're talking about but i just read the thread because i noticed your name is bahram. i have a very common persian name myself. i'd guess you probably know at least one person with my name.
anyway, oc is the place to be for persians in cali...you're lucky. i'm in central cali. doh saleh peesh tooyeh irvine zendegee meekardam...
i like the hair and style...and the gf
man eenjam chon daram game behtar yad meegeeram. benazar meeyad toh game daree. een bacheh deevooneh haroh velkon, faghat baladan chertopert began... boro beeshtar toor bezan.![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mr_knowit_all said:Style? This fag looks like Tony Montana from Scarface.......I'm more MASSIVE than him, and I think my style trumps his by far.
Sounds like you speak from experience with douches......Bahram36 said:Wow. Did this douche really just say that ??
hahahahahahahahaahahhaaahaha