johnmich
Senior Don Juan
yea i thought that too. You are a massive dude with a sharp dress sense that makes you stand out
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
chetori? farsi baladee?Bahram36 said:So who is everyone else on this forum ?? Always interesting to see faces behind the names...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Amen brother!chickenlegs03 said:man eenjam chon daram game behtar yad meegeeram. benazar meeyad toh game daree. een bacheh deevooneh haroh velkon, faghat baladan chertopert began... boro beeshtar toor bezan.![]()
Wsup bro... Yeah OC has a crapload of Persians, a good and a bad thing... Thanks for the complements and yeah I know exactly what youre saying about een aghab-mundehah ... Faghat baladan besheenan keer tuh dast chert began...chickenlegs03 said:chetori? farsi baladee?
i have no idea who the guy is you're talking about but i just read the thread because i noticed your name is bahram. i have a very common persian name myself. i'd guess you probably know at least one person with my name.
anyway, oc is the place to be for persians in cali...you're lucky. i'm in central cali. doh saleh peesh tooyeh irvine zendegee meekardam...
i like the hair and style...and the gf
man eenjam chon daram game behtar yad meegeeram. benazar meeyad toh game daree. een bacheh deevooneh haroh velkon, faghat baladan chertopert began... boro beeshtar toor bezan.![]()
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Mr_knowit_all said:Style? This fag looks like Tony Montana from Scarface.......I'm more MASSIVE than him, and I think my style trumps his by far.
Sounds like you speak from experience with douches......Bahram36 said:Wow. Did this douche really just say that ??
hahahahahahahahaahahhaaahaha