johnmich
Senior Don Juan
yea i thought that too. You are a massive dude with a sharp dress sense that makes you stand out
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
chetori? farsi baladee?Bahram36 said:So who is everyone else on this forum ?? Always interesting to see faces behind the names...
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Amen brother!chickenlegs03 said:man eenjam chon daram game behtar yad meegeeram. benazar meeyad toh game daree. een bacheh deevooneh haroh velkon, faghat baladan chertopert began... boro beeshtar toor bezan.![]()
Wsup bro... Yeah OC has a crapload of Persians, a good and a bad thing... Thanks for the complements and yeah I know exactly what youre saying about een aghab-mundehah ... Faghat baladan besheenan keer tuh dast chert began...chickenlegs03 said:chetori? farsi baladee?
i have no idea who the guy is you're talking about but i just read the thread because i noticed your name is bahram. i have a very common persian name myself. i'd guess you probably know at least one person with my name.
anyway, oc is the place to be for persians in cali...you're lucky. i'm in central cali. doh saleh peesh tooyeh irvine zendegee meekardam...
i like the hair and style...and the gf
man eenjam chon daram game behtar yad meegeeram. benazar meeyad toh game daree. een bacheh deevooneh haroh velkon, faghat baladan chertopert began... boro beeshtar toor bezan.![]()
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mr_knowit_all said:Style? This fag looks like Tony Montana from Scarface.......I'm more MASSIVE than him, and I think my style trumps his by far.
Sounds like you speak from experience with douches......Bahram36 said:Wow. Did this douche really just say that ??
hahahahahahahahaahahhaaahaha