Josh Davidson
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Can someone explain to me what "frame" and "calibration" mean?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hi Josh,
No offense bud but it seems like you want everything on a platter. Stick around and read various threads and do searches for the things you seek. Nothing worthwhile comes easy or fast. You need to get out of the mindset of having info spoon fed to you. If something isn't clear after you have done some searching, I'm sure there are member's that would be glad to help.
No offense bud but it seems like you want everything on a platter. Stick around and read various threads and do searches for the things you seek. Nothing worthwhile comes easy or fast. You need to get out of the mindset of having info spoon fed to you. If something isn't clear after you have done some searching, I'm sure there are member's that would be glad to help.
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Throughout your life there will be a lot of things that happen to you that will challenge you. When you dont allow those things to affect you because you understand that it's not really a big deal what he/she is saying, is when you are said to have a strong frame. You'll get tested a lot by people who have strong frames. Dont worry about why they do this (most of the time they just do it cuz they assume you have a strong frame too (cuz having a strong frame is attractive. And attractive people like to hang out with attractive people). So they get weirded out if you react negatively to their test framing. Usually with comments like, "dude I was just fcking with you haha. Why are you so serious" it's just unattractive to hang with people you can't be yourself with to people with strong frames.
Calibration is just being aware of social context. When or when its appropriate to do/say certain things. As you get experience in social environments/hanging (and observing) with people with high social IQ as opposed to sitting at home reading about it, your intuition will get stronger and you'll just be a naturally calibrated person.
Calibration is just being aware of social context. When or when its appropriate to do/say certain things. As you get experience in social environments/hanging (and observing) with people with high social IQ as opposed to sitting at home reading about it, your intuition will get stronger and you'll just be a naturally calibrated person.
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Interesting! Thank you!
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Hold on a minute OP....? Are you a female???? These are man terms, how can you dont known em????
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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