Josh Davidson
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Can someone explain to me what "frame" and "calibration" mean?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Hi Josh,
No offense bud but it seems like you want everything on a platter. Stick around and read various threads and do searches for the things you seek. Nothing worthwhile comes easy or fast. You need to get out of the mindset of having info spoon fed to you. If something isn't clear after you have done some searching, I'm sure there are member's that would be glad to help.
No offense bud but it seems like you want everything on a platter. Stick around and read various threads and do searches for the things you seek. Nothing worthwhile comes easy or fast. You need to get out of the mindset of having info spoon fed to you. If something isn't clear after you have done some searching, I'm sure there are member's that would be glad to help.
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Throughout your life there will be a lot of things that happen to you that will challenge you. When you dont allow those things to affect you because you understand that it's not really a big deal what he/she is saying, is when you are said to have a strong frame. You'll get tested a lot by people who have strong frames. Dont worry about why they do this (most of the time they just do it cuz they assume you have a strong frame too (cuz having a strong frame is attractive. And attractive people like to hang out with attractive people). So they get weirded out if you react negatively to their test framing. Usually with comments like, "dude I was just fcking with you haha. Why are you so serious" it's just unattractive to hang with people you can't be yourself with to people with strong frames.
Calibration is just being aware of social context. When or when its appropriate to do/say certain things. As you get experience in social environments/hanging (and observing) with people with high social IQ as opposed to sitting at home reading about it, your intuition will get stronger and you'll just be a naturally calibrated person.
Calibration is just being aware of social context. When or when its appropriate to do/say certain things. As you get experience in social environments/hanging (and observing) with people with high social IQ as opposed to sitting at home reading about it, your intuition will get stronger and you'll just be a naturally calibrated person.
Josh Davidson
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Interesting! Thank you!
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Hold on a minute OP....? Are you a female???? These are man terms, how can you dont known em????
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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