Josh Davidson
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Can someone explain to me what "frame" and "calibration" mean?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hi Josh,
No offense bud but it seems like you want everything on a platter. Stick around and read various threads and do searches for the things you seek. Nothing worthwhile comes easy or fast. You need to get out of the mindset of having info spoon fed to you. If something isn't clear after you have done some searching, I'm sure there are member's that would be glad to help.
No offense bud but it seems like you want everything on a platter. Stick around and read various threads and do searches for the things you seek. Nothing worthwhile comes easy or fast. You need to get out of the mindset of having info spoon fed to you. If something isn't clear after you have done some searching, I'm sure there are member's that would be glad to help.
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Throughout your life there will be a lot of things that happen to you that will challenge you. When you dont allow those things to affect you because you understand that it's not really a big deal what he/she is saying, is when you are said to have a strong frame. You'll get tested a lot by people who have strong frames. Dont worry about why they do this (most of the time they just do it cuz they assume you have a strong frame too (cuz having a strong frame is attractive. And attractive people like to hang out with attractive people). So they get weirded out if you react negatively to their test framing. Usually with comments like, "dude I was just fcking with you haha. Why are you so serious" it's just unattractive to hang with people you can't be yourself with to people with strong frames.
Calibration is just being aware of social context. When or when its appropriate to do/say certain things. As you get experience in social environments/hanging (and observing) with people with high social IQ as opposed to sitting at home reading about it, your intuition will get stronger and you'll just be a naturally calibrated person.
Calibration is just being aware of social context. When or when its appropriate to do/say certain things. As you get experience in social environments/hanging (and observing) with people with high social IQ as opposed to sitting at home reading about it, your intuition will get stronger and you'll just be a naturally calibrated person.
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Interesting! Thank you!
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Hold on a minute OP....? Are you a female???? These are man terms, how can you dont known em????
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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