"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can someone explain this to me?

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ElStud

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I just need to someone to explain this for me. Alright, I can go to the mall and get rejected several times, but then when it comes to this one girl at school I like, I just can't approach her. I can make all the excuses in the world, her friends, other guys talking to her, but in the end is that I'm just too afraid of her NOT liking me. So can someone explain why I can approach several girls, but then when it comes to ONE girl I can't do it?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cremasta said:
Because you think she's something that she probably isn't... unattainable.
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Exactly.

You've perceived her as of much higher value than all the rest of the girls you have approached, you subconsciously tell yourself that she is more important and therefore will take more effort.
 
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B4IFURU18?

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Does she outweigh you by 75 pounds, and bench 350? Or is she just that hideous looking?

Either way, you're putting that ***** up on a pedestal. There's no reason to do that. She ****'s, eats, farts, and burps just like you do...
 
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It's the social environment. The fear of getting rejected in the school. You understand that you will be seeing the same girl again and again unlike the mall girls but do it anyways.

Does she ever smile/look at you different than "normally"? Oh smile and say hi to her next time you pass by her...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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