“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Can someone explain this to me?

ElStud

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I just need to someone to explain this for me. Alright, I can go to the mall and get rejected several times, but then when it comes to this one girl at school I like, I just can't approach her. I can make all the excuses in the world, her friends, other guys talking to her, but in the end is that I'm just too afraid of her NOT liking me. So can someone explain why I can approach several girls, but then when it comes to ONE girl I can't do it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cremasta said:
Because you think she's something that she probably isn't... unattainable.
Exactly.

You've perceived her as of much higher value than all the rest of the girls you have approached, you subconsciously tell yourself that she is more important and therefore will take more effort.
 

B4IFURU18?

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Does she outweigh you by 75 pounds, and bench 350? Or is she just that hideous looking?

Either way, you're putting that ***** up on a pedestal. There's no reason to do that. She ****'s, eats, farts, and burps just like you do...
 

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It's the social environment. The fear of getting rejected in the school. You understand that you will be seeing the same girl again and again unlike the mall girls but do it anyways.

Does she ever smile/look at you different than "normally"? Oh smile and say hi to her next time you pass by her...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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