"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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can she report you

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if you see a women walking down the public street and did what hoobie did basically ..

say "h i, i'm a new grad student, I 've just got into london for six hours ago, do you wanna fuk( or have sex ?) ? "

Can she report you for sexual harassment ?? I dn't think so because its a public place not work...what do you think...?

mind you, this ain't london but the us of a
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Some guy on this board wrote about how he and his buddy went to a club with the intention of just asking attractive girls for sex. He asked 20-some chicks and got a few drinks thrown at him and a lot of rejections, but his friend got laid that night. nobody reported either of them.

the point is, if she can, I doubt she will.
 
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She could claim that your sexual harassment caused her undue mental stress or suffering and file a civil lawsuit against you...Of course, it's pretty unlikely she would bother to, and even more unlikely that she would win.
 
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You'd just walk off and she'd never see you again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It depends what you look like. If you are good looking and young you'll be a cheeky so and so, and considered confident.

If you're not good looking and a bit on the old side you will be arrested and put on the sex offenders register.
 
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