"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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can she report you

KnightRyder

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if you see a women walking down the public street and did what hoobie did basically ..

say "h i, i'm a new grad student, I 've just got into london for six hours ago, do you wanna fuk( or have sex ?) ? "

Can she report you for sexual harassment ?? I dn't think so because its a public place not work...what do you think...?

mind you, this ain't london but the us of a
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Porky

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Some guy on this board wrote about how he and his buddy went to a club with the intention of just asking attractive girls for sex. He asked 20-some chicks and got a few drinks thrown at him and a lot of rejections, but his friend got laid that night. nobody reported either of them.

the point is, if she can, I doubt she will.
 

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She could claim that your sexual harassment caused her undue mental stress or suffering and file a civil lawsuit against you...Of course, it's pretty unlikely she would bother to, and even more unlikely that she would win.
 

S0LID

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You'd just walk off and she'd never see you again.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It depends what you look like. If you are good looking and young you'll be a cheeky so and so, and considered confident.

If you're not good looking and a bit on the old side you will be arrested and put on the sex offenders register.
 
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