"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Can PUA bootcamps really help men that have the terrible trinity of short, ethnic & ugly?

Black Widow Void

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Speaking of height, I'm 5'9, but most women think I'm lying. They swore that I was much taller. In fact, I've had friends taller than me think that I was their height.

If I was way below avg. height, I could see how the above comments might be a white lie, but since I'm around "average" ... I'm thinking that it's more about they way we carry ourselves.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HyenaPrince

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Speaking of height, I'm 5'9, but most women think I'm lying. They swore that I was much taller. In fact, I've had friends taller than me think that I was their height.

If I was way below avg. height, I could see how the above comments might be a white lie, but since I'm around "average" ... I'm thinking that it's more about they way we carry ourselves.
100%. It's all about body language and confidence. Keep your back straight and roll your shoulders back. You'll feel like a f*cking giant. I'm 6 feet and do okay with women. I have this one friend who is about 5.7 and women would eat him on the street if they could. I admit he has a chiseled body and is the epitome of an extrovert.
 

Black Widow Void

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Well if im wrong @Black Widow Void then the above situation wouldn't exist. Its either true or false. Cant have it both ways bruh. As the example shows. When its in your mind then it is the problem.
This is basic shyt that women love confidence.
We are in agreement.
Ordinarily, I enjoy reading your postings. However, your recent veiled personal attacks toward forum members (and worse, this includes more newer type forum members) sounds like a "Napoleon complex" to me.
 

MatureDJ

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A display in front of females would catch their attention.
Look to nature. Birds display to attract mates.
Copy nature. Never mind the trinity.
Here's the bird mascot of the Incels (i.e., 90% of males don't mate) displaying ...

 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MatureDJ

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The first thing I thought when I read that is that 5'10" is average, so maybe he meant that it is hard to stand out being average. You kind of blend into the background. But I'm 5'10" also, I don't really see it as a weakness, seems like a poor mindset. Sometimes I feel tall, sometimes I feel short, depending on who I'm standing next to lol.
So since I "stand out" by being 5'5", that should HELP me? :rolleyes: :mad:
 

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This guy needs a boot camp and I guarantee he'll slay. He's been looksmaxing too.
If I were producing a movie about gritty city life like "Taxi Driver", I would hire this guy on the spot to be a pervert extra at the X-rated movie theatre. o_O
 
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