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can negative and kinda agro people be DJ's?

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like people who say "this song sucks" or "**** i hate this crap" or someone says this is a good song and u say this song is **** etc
 

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Haha great thread! :up:

Anyone can become a DJ with the right motivation.
motivation to change to a more positive person?
 

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Anyone can be successful with females lets not get caught up in all the internet code lingo. Let's break down your post into more well known terms to see what you are really asking.

can negative and kinda agro people be DJ's?
English Translation:

Can pessimistic and aggresive (aggro?) males be successful when it comes to baiting and having sexual relations with females?

No one can really be a DJ that's just internet code slang like HB8 and all that other stuff that doesn't really help. If someone is confident in themselves and is fairly clean he can definately get a couple girls to slut themselves at him. Being successful is not mathematics like some of you guys make it seem. It's about being smooth and confident in your game and style not how many seconds you hold her hand or how many seconds you stare into space before you make eye contact.
 

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You could try to redirect your aggression into more positive responses (im assuming that it is you that is the aggressive one).
If someone says 'i really like this song...', you could say 'i heard the lead singer was caught doing nasty things to little fishes...'. This, at least, allows you to emote your negative feelings in a, somewhat, humourous manner.

Another example: Say somebody says they like a TV program. Instead of saying 'I hate it...', you could mention something that you prefer to it, and why.

Life is too short to be negative. I have often found myself beginning sentences with things like 'i hate' and 'd'you know what sucks...'. It takes a little bit of(well, ok, ALOT of) practice, but you will eventually find that these things cease to be the first thing to pass out of your lips.
 

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lets go through a scenario.

you're at a party, and you meet 2 hbs. both are equally good looking, both are into you.

DJ plays one of your fav songs. you're kinda happy cause he's been playing songs you dont really like for the most of the night.

you say your song is on to one of the HBs. she says it sucks a$$ and that the DJ needs to play stuff from earlier.

you say your song is on to the other HB. she says it's a pretty cool song, although she doesn't know much about the artist as she does about the earlier ones, hasn't heard much from them.

now, neither one of these girls is really into your song as much as you are, but at the end of theparty, which one are you gonna go for? which one do you think you'd have a more fun time with?

see, diplomacy gets you everywhere.
 
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