“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
can negative and kinda agro people be DJ's?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Can pessimistic and aggresive (aggro?) males be successful when it comes to baiting and having sexual relations with females?
No one can really be a DJ that's just internet code slang like HB8 and all that other stuff that doesn't really help. If someone is confident in themselves and is fairly clean he can definately get a couple girls to slut themselves at him. Being successful is not mathematics like some of you guys make it seem. It's about being smooth and confident in your game and style not how many seconds you hold her hand or how many seconds you stare into space before you make eye contact.
If someone says 'i really like this song...', you could say 'i heard the lead singer was caught doing nasty things to little fishes...'. This, at least, allows you to emote your negative feelings in a, somewhat, humourous manner.
Another example: Say somebody says they like a TV program. Instead of saying 'I hate it...', you could mention something that you prefer to it, and why.
Life is too short to be negative. I have often found myself beginning sentences with things like 'i hate' and 'd'you know what sucks...'. It takes a little bit of(well, ok, ALOT of) practice, but you will eventually find that these things cease to be the first thing to pass out of your lips.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MindOverMatter
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you're at a party, and you meet 2 hbs. both are equally good looking, both are into you.
DJ plays one of your fav songs. you're kinda happy cause he's been playing songs you dont really like for the most of the night.
you say your song is on to one of the HBs. she says it sucks a$$ and that the DJ needs to play stuff from earlier.
you say your song is on to the other HB. she says it's a pretty cool song, although she doesn't know much about the artist as she does about the earlier ones, hasn't heard much from them.
now, neither one of these girls is really into your song as much as you are, but at the end of theparty, which one are you gonna go for? which one do you think you'd have a more fun time with?
see, diplomacy gets you everywhere.