"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
can negative and kinda agro people be DJ's?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Can pessimistic and aggresive (aggro?) males be successful when it comes to baiting and having sexual relations with females?
No one can really be a DJ that's just internet code slang like HB8 and all that other stuff that doesn't really help. If someone is confident in themselves and is fairly clean he can definately get a couple girls to slut themselves at him. Being successful is not mathematics like some of you guys make it seem. It's about being smooth and confident in your game and style not how many seconds you hold her hand or how many seconds you stare into space before you make eye contact.
If someone says 'i really like this song...', you could say 'i heard the lead singer was caught doing nasty things to little fishes...'. This, at least, allows you to emote your negative feelings in a, somewhat, humourous manner.
Another example: Say somebody says they like a TV program. Instead of saying 'I hate it...', you could mention something that you prefer to it, and why.
Life is too short to be negative. I have often found myself beginning sentences with things like 'i hate' and 'd'you know what sucks...'. It takes a little bit of(well, ok, ALOT of) practice, but you will eventually find that these things cease to be the first thing to pass out of your lips.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MindOverMatter
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you're at a party, and you meet 2 hbs. both are equally good looking, both are into you.
DJ plays one of your fav songs. you're kinda happy cause he's been playing songs you dont really like for the most of the night.
you say your song is on to one of the HBs. she says it sucks a$$ and that the DJ needs to play stuff from earlier.
you say your song is on to the other HB. she says it's a pretty cool song, although she doesn't know much about the artist as she does about the earlier ones, hasn't heard much from them.
now, neither one of these girls is really into your song as much as you are, but at the end of theparty, which one are you gonna go for? which one do you think you'd have a more fun time with?
see, diplomacy gets you everywhere.