mr. kennedy
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I would say yes if the plate is in your social circle but no if you are approaching strangers.
Thoughts?
Thoughts?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Can low energy guys do well with women?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
mr. kennedy
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I'm a tall, well built, athletic guy.
It's just that convos takes a lot of energy out of me. As if I just ran a 5 mile marathon.
I'm not charismatic right off the bat, women fall for me as they get to know me.
It's just that convos takes a lot of energy out of me. As if I just ran a 5 mile marathon.
I'm not charismatic right off the bat, women fall for me as they get to know me.
DonJuanit0
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I pretty much have the same think (I will not call it a problem). I have been with a lot of women for my age and I think there have been only 2 that I didn't know at all.
You said it would be a yes if it was from your social circle. Well, how about expanding that circle? Best thing about it? You don't even have to do it! Meet friends of friends, friends of co-workers etc. Expand that circle!
I myself feel very uncomfortable going straight up to a stranger and talking. Nevertheless, when I get to meet a woman I am interested in (via social circle) I will attack full strength! I love talking to women and I love that thing that you say it drains you out.
I think a more important question for you is, is it really your "energy" that holds you back or your fear of approaching?
You said it would be a yes if it was from your social circle. Well, how about expanding that circle? Best thing about it? You don't even have to do it! Meet friends of friends, friends of co-workers etc. Expand that circle!
I myself feel very uncomfortable going straight up to a stranger and talking. Nevertheless, when I get to meet a woman I am interested in (via social circle) I will attack full strength! I love talking to women and I love that thing that you say it drains you out.
I think a more important question for you is, is it really your "energy" that holds you back or your fear of approaching?
Mike32ct
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A more chill, low energy guy will do better one on one than with groups. He probably won't be the guy gaming a group of women. Either do social circle or cold approach lone wolves.