Ok guys imma be honest with all of you guys ok,I met this girl on myspace and she is 18 years old and is a senior in High school,ok also she lives in Maryland and I live in Southern California.Ok we text and talk on the phone but she has told me she is not gonna take me completely serious until we meet and also she considers herself very high maintenance but she works at basket n robbin.One thing about her she is always busy with school and then she comes home sleeps for a few hours and then she goes to work,I only get to talk to her for a hour everyday and she text me like 4 times a day.She always acts like all these guys want her but she is single.I plan on coming out there too see her in FEB.Do you guys think I should just drop this High maintenance girl who always seem too busy or continue pursuing her.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Can long distance relationship work
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Come on guys i am dying here I need some damn advice man,this situation is driving me up the wall.Seems like only time she text first is in the morning and she says good mornin other then that I gotta text 1st.I wanna know how should I play this situation out.Should I use the no contact method.
sketchy
New Member
why are you sweating a girl you have never met that lives across the country? you live in California, surely there are other you girls you can worry about.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Now why the heck would I give you her myspace and I am trying to date her.But anyways she just text me saying call her right,so I call her and we get into argument because she thinks I have a attitude with her so she says hold on and the girl took forever to click back over so I hung up on her.Now what you guys think about that.
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The reason LDRs don't work is because taking a LDR over real life intimacy is one of the most AFC things you could think of doing
Vice
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Time for some tough love dude. Follow these steps, and I can GUARANTEE you success:
1. Stop talking to this chick. You're wasting your time.
2. Stop using MySpace.
3. Go join some after-school activities, whether it's sports or whatever. Just get out there.
4. No, LDR's DO NOT WORK. How do you know she's not banging some other dude? There's NO way you can be one thousand percent certain.
5. You can't "date" someone that's thousands of miles away.
1. Stop talking to this chick. You're wasting your time.
2. Stop using MySpace.
3. Go join some after-school activities, whether it's sports or whatever. Just get out there.
4. No, LDR's DO NOT WORK. How do you know she's not banging some other dude? There's NO way you can be one thousand percent certain.
5. You can't "date" someone that's thousands of miles away.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
If you could pull your head outa your ass for five seconds you'd see that these people WERE giving you advice. But you didnt WANT advice, you came to this forum for validation. You wanted everyone to tell you what you wanted to hear, which was; "yeah LDRs can work!" but the truth is they NEVER do.
Seriously? Dating a girl you've never met all the way across the country? Is it THAT hard to find girls in SD? (NO!)
Seriously? Dating a girl you've never met all the way across the country? Is it THAT hard to find girls in SD? (NO!)
California is California. And if you really have the potential to "bang girls 24/7" in SD why not make a road trip? Its only 2 hours away and would most certainly be less taxing (on the wallet and the emotions) than some myspace girl who lives across the country LOL
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DonGorgon
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shortie
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One word, NO
I am speaking from experience. an 8 year relationship went into LDR and ended in 3 months! is that proof enough for you?
I am speaking from experience. an 8 year relationship went into LDR and ended in 3 months! is that proof enough for you?
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
NO for me!in my AFC days I had one and thats why I ended up on this site,because of her...Young girls want fun,how will you give her when you are far away?I say leave her and go for someone else
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