"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Can I send a text message to ask her out?

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blue11199

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im a college student, and im already pretty fond of the girl i want to ask out. we've hanged out before in groups, and im pretty sure she is interested in me. last time we hung out was a few weeks ago with a couple friends. she is fairly busy and involved in various activities, and i dont know her class schedule. ive never actually been with her one on one

is it ok if i just send a short, simple, and informal text message to ask her out to get something to eat sometime whenever she's free instead of calling her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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blue11199 said:
im a college student, and im already pretty fond of the girl i want to ask out. we've hanged out before in groups, and im pretty sure she is interested in me. last time we hung out was a few weeks ago. she is fairly busy and involved in various activities, and i dont know her class schedule.
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So what?

is it ok if i just send a short, simple, and informal text message to ask her out to get something to eat sometime whenever she's free instead of calling her?
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You sound like a chump AFC. (I'm just sayin) but no, call her. Keep the convo short and to the point. Go on some type of action date (Skating, Dancing, ect.). When you call her, assume she will say yes. Give her two dates to choose from, Tuesday or Wednesday. Whatever you do dont say anything along th lines of "Hi, please go out with me.." or "You wanna hang out sometime". Dont be a chump.
 
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I would never ask someone out on a text message.. I would however confirm that plans are on or set a specific date or time on a txt after talking on the phone or in person about it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Trendsetter said:
Lol u guys are too much. Txt her, or call, doesn't make any difference.
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it really doesn't matter these days. i've setup dates by calling, text, facebook, myspace, im.
 
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