"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Can I rebound from this mistake...

irocknike23

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so i been texting this girl all week that i been really trying to to hit that...

and last night we were gona meet up at a party...

well i got to the part like an hour before her like 10ish..

and my friend gave me an edible bud cookie. i ate it.

and i underestimated it and it hit me hard as hell like an hour later. so then she comes and sees me in the front and runs up to me and gives me a hug and i said hello........but thats it. i was sooo stoned i couldnt talk or think i was just stuck and the original plan was to chill an be with her the whole night and hoping that leads up to something. but instead i totally blew her off and ingored her the whole night and this morning she aint texting me back....



im thinking i will call her like in 3 days..but do you guys see a comeback or nah?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tyson420

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just tell her what you told us.

That you were stoned out your damn mind the other night.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Why would you eat a bud cookie if you get that stoned? This is the reason I do not do drugs. Because it affects my game.

Just call her as soon as possible and ask her to hangout sometime. Tell her you weren't feeling well t hat night buut don't apologize.
 

irocknike23

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would it be smarter to leave her alone for a few days...my gut instinct is telling me to do this but IDK...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Do it now. Give her a couple days and she will probably next your ass.
 

sexysuave

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That must have been some good ass cookies.
:crackup:

LOL, but seriously, it sounds like you have already blew it. You were probably overdoing the apologizing and trying to get a hold of her to the point that you lowered your value in her eyes and sounded desperate and now you are probably even creeping her out lol. I think you should delete her number and forget about her and chock it down as a loss lol. Move on to other chicks, you'll quickly forget about her. If you see her anywhere later on in life or whatever, you can always try to game her up and see if you can reestablish some attraction in person, but delete her number for now.
 
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