"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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irocknike23

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so i been texting this girl all week that i been really trying to to hit that...

and last night we were gona meet up at a party...

well i got to the part like an hour before her like 10ish..

and my friend gave me an edible bud cookie. i ate it.

and i underestimated it and it hit me hard as hell like an hour later. so then she comes and sees me in the front and runs up to me and gives me a hug and i said hello........but thats it. i was sooo stoned i couldnt talk or think i was just stuck and the original plan was to chill an be with her the whole night and hoping that leads up to something. but instead i totally blew her off and ingored her the whole night and this morning she aint texting me back....



im thinking i will call her like in 3 days..but do you guys see a comeback or nah?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tyson420

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just tell her what you told us.

That you were stoned out your damn mind the other night.
 

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Why would you eat a bud cookie if you get that stoned? This is the reason I do not do drugs. Because it affects my game.

Just call her as soon as possible and ask her to hangout sometime. Tell her you weren't feeling well t hat night buut don't apologize.
 

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would it be smarter to leave her alone for a few days...my gut instinct is telling me to do this but IDK...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do it now. Give her a couple days and she will probably next your ass.
 

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That must have been some good ass cookies.
:crackup:

LOL, but seriously, it sounds like you have already blew it. You were probably overdoing the apologizing and trying to get a hold of her to the point that you lowered your value in her eyes and sounded desperate and now you are probably even creeping her out lol. I think you should delete her number and forget about her and chock it down as a loss lol. Move on to other chicks, you'll quickly forget about her. If you see her anywhere later on in life or whatever, you can always try to game her up and see if you can reestablish some attraction in person, but delete her number for now.
 
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