"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can I rebound from this mistake...

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so i been texting this girl all week that i been really trying to to hit that...

and last night we were gona meet up at a party...

well i got to the part like an hour before her like 10ish..

and my friend gave me an edible bud cookie. i ate it.

and i underestimated it and it hit me hard as hell like an hour later. so then she comes and sees me in the front and runs up to me and gives me a hug and i said hello........but thats it. i was sooo stoned i couldnt talk or think i was just stuck and the original plan was to chill an be with her the whole night and hoping that leads up to something. but instead i totally blew her off and ingored her the whole night and this morning she aint texting me back....



im thinking i will call her like in 3 days..but do you guys see a comeback or nah?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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just tell her what you told us.

That you were stoned out your damn mind the other night.
 
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Why would you eat a bud cookie if you get that stoned? This is the reason I do not do drugs. Because it affects my game.

Just call her as soon as possible and ask her to hangout sometime. Tell her you weren't feeling well t hat night buut don't apologize.
 
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would it be smarter to leave her alone for a few days...my gut instinct is telling me to do this but IDK...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do it now. Give her a couple days and she will probably next your ass.
 
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That must have been some good ass cookies.
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LOL, but seriously, it sounds like you have already blew it. You were probably overdoing the apologizing and trying to get a hold of her to the point that you lowered your value in her eyes and sounded desperate and now you are probably even creeping her out lol. I think you should delete her number and forget about her and chock it down as a loss lol. Move on to other chicks, you'll quickly forget about her. If you see her anywhere later on in life or whatever, you can always try to game her up and see if you can reestablish some attraction in person, but delete her number for now.
 
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