"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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irocknike23

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so i been texting this girl all week that i been really trying to to hit that...

and last night we were gona meet up at a party...

well i got to the part like an hour before her like 10ish..

and my friend gave me an edible bud cookie. i ate it.

and i underestimated it and it hit me hard as hell like an hour later. so then she comes and sees me in the front and runs up to me and gives me a hug and i said hello........but thats it. i was sooo stoned i couldnt talk or think i was just stuck and the original plan was to chill an be with her the whole night and hoping that leads up to something. but instead i totally blew her off and ingored her the whole night and this morning she aint texting me back....



im thinking i will call her like in 3 days..but do you guys see a comeback or nah?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tyson420

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just tell her what you told us.

That you were stoned out your damn mind the other night.
 

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Why would you eat a bud cookie if you get that stoned? This is the reason I do not do drugs. Because it affects my game.

Just call her as soon as possible and ask her to hangout sometime. Tell her you weren't feeling well t hat night buut don't apologize.
 

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would it be smarter to leave her alone for a few days...my gut instinct is telling me to do this but IDK...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do it now. Give her a couple days and she will probably next your ass.
 

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That must have been some good ass cookies.
:crackup:

LOL, but seriously, it sounds like you have already blew it. You were probably overdoing the apologizing and trying to get a hold of her to the point that you lowered your value in her eyes and sounded desperate and now you are probably even creeping her out lol. I think you should delete her number and forget about her and chock it down as a loss lol. Move on to other chicks, you'll quickly forget about her. If you see her anywhere later on in life or whatever, you can always try to game her up and see if you can reestablish some attraction in person, but delete her number for now.
 
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