"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Can I pull this off or no?

Dole

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Okay long story short when I was 18 i got a call from a friend asking me if I wanna hook up with him, he's with 2 girls and they are horny. I accepted he came picked me up we drove to there house. We chilled there talked blah blah then I took the girl to her sister's room since she was out of town (I know her sister quiet well actually just a big coincidence). Ok anyways she didn't wanna have sex she just wanted oral sh1t. Anyways I actually managed to have sex with her and it was a quickie not even 2 minutes(yeah i wasn't good in bed back then). Anyways I get her number or what ever then I find out she's 16 and have never called her since that night. Well tonight I went on to her sister's page on facebook and I saw a photo of her and she's smoking hot! like daamn she was good back then also but now she really hot. So would it be akward for her if i send her a message on facebook? and to tell you the truth I wouldn't really know what to say or how to approach it.
Any advice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Prodigy746

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You can try, Just say hay i am blah blah's friend we met once ..lol??? Whats the worst that can happen?
 

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just send a quick, brief message. if she doesn't reply, who cares you probably won't see her in real life again. hopefully she replies. if she does i would recommend to not do more than 3-4 replies back and forth.

internet convos are awkward, and she is not gonna want to have a long one unless she is desperate.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Max Power

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I had the reverse happen to me.

A girl I banged once years ago found me on Facebook and added me as her friend.

If she looked hot and was in my city I'd hook up with her again.

So I say go for it.
 

Nighthawk

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n00bPimp said:
Say something like:
"Hey I remember you. You molested me once... you naughty girl."
Yes, something like this.
 
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