"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Can I pull this off or no?

Dole

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Okay long story short when I was 18 i got a call from a friend asking me if I wanna hook up with him, he's with 2 girls and they are horny. I accepted he came picked me up we drove to there house. We chilled there talked blah blah then I took the girl to her sister's room since she was out of town (I know her sister quiet well actually just a big coincidence). Ok anyways she didn't wanna have sex she just wanted oral sh1t. Anyways I actually managed to have sex with her and it was a quickie not even 2 minutes(yeah i wasn't good in bed back then). Anyways I get her number or what ever then I find out she's 16 and have never called her since that night. Well tonight I went on to her sister's page on facebook and I saw a photo of her and she's smoking hot! like daamn she was good back then also but now she really hot. So would it be akward for her if i send her a message on facebook? and to tell you the truth I wouldn't really know what to say or how to approach it.
Any advice?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Prodigy746

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You can try, Just say hay i am blah blah's friend we met once ..lol??? Whats the worst that can happen?
 

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just send a quick, brief message. if she doesn't reply, who cares you probably won't see her in real life again. hopefully she replies. if she does i would recommend to not do more than 3-4 replies back and forth.

internet convos are awkward, and she is not gonna want to have a long one unless she is desperate.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Max Power

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I had the reverse happen to me.

A girl I banged once years ago found me on Facebook and added me as her friend.

If she looked hot and was in my city I'd hook up with her again.

So I say go for it.
 

Nighthawk

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n00bPimp said:
Say something like:
"Hey I remember you. You molested me once... you naughty girl."
Yes, something like this.
 
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