"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can I pull this off or no?

Dole

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Okay long story short when I was 18 i got a call from a friend asking me if I wanna hook up with him, he's with 2 girls and they are horny. I accepted he came picked me up we drove to there house. We chilled there talked blah blah then I took the girl to her sister's room since she was out of town (I know her sister quiet well actually just a big coincidence). Ok anyways she didn't wanna have sex she just wanted oral sh1t. Anyways I actually managed to have sex with her and it was a quickie not even 2 minutes(yeah i wasn't good in bed back then). Anyways I get her number or what ever then I find out she's 16 and have never called her since that night. Well tonight I went on to her sister's page on facebook and I saw a photo of her and she's smoking hot! like daamn she was good back then also but now she really hot. So would it be akward for her if i send her a message on facebook? and to tell you the truth I wouldn't really know what to say or how to approach it.
Any advice?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Prodigy746

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You can try, Just say hay i am blah blah's friend we met once ..lol??? Whats the worst that can happen?
 

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just send a quick, brief message. if she doesn't reply, who cares you probably won't see her in real life again. hopefully she replies. if she does i would recommend to not do more than 3-4 replies back and forth.

internet convos are awkward, and she is not gonna want to have a long one unless she is desperate.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Max Power

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I had the reverse happen to me.

A girl I banged once years ago found me on Facebook and added me as her friend.

If she looked hot and was in my city I'd hook up with her again.

So I say go for it.
 

Nighthawk

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n00bPimp said:
Say something like:
"Hey I remember you. You molested me once... you naughty girl."
Yes, something like this.
 
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