"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Can I pull this off or no?

Dole

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Okay long story short when I was 18 i got a call from a friend asking me if I wanna hook up with him, he's with 2 girls and they are horny. I accepted he came picked me up we drove to there house. We chilled there talked blah blah then I took the girl to her sister's room since she was out of town (I know her sister quiet well actually just a big coincidence). Ok anyways she didn't wanna have sex she just wanted oral sh1t. Anyways I actually managed to have sex with her and it was a quickie not even 2 minutes(yeah i wasn't good in bed back then). Anyways I get her number or what ever then I find out she's 16 and have never called her since that night. Well tonight I went on to her sister's page on facebook and I saw a photo of her and she's smoking hot! like daamn she was good back then also but now she really hot. So would it be akward for her if i send her a message on facebook? and to tell you the truth I wouldn't really know what to say or how to approach it.
Any advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Prodigy746

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You can try, Just say hay i am blah blah's friend we met once ..lol??? Whats the worst that can happen?
 

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just send a quick, brief message. if she doesn't reply, who cares you probably won't see her in real life again. hopefully she replies. if she does i would recommend to not do more than 3-4 replies back and forth.

internet convos are awkward, and she is not gonna want to have a long one unless she is desperate.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Max Power

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I had the reverse happen to me.

A girl I banged once years ago found me on Facebook and added me as her friend.

If she looked hot and was in my city I'd hook up with her again.

So I say go for it.
 

Nighthawk

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n00bPimp said:
Say something like:
"Hey I remember you. You molested me once... you naughty girl."
Yes, something like this.
 
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