"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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can I neglect chest/shoulders for now?

spesmilitis

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Is it alright if I don't do chest/shoulders for a while? Like 2 months? I keep missing my chest/shoulder workout cuz of my schedule. Afterall, legs/back is the most important to develop, right?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't have time for a three day split right now either. Just do a two day split instead. The day you currently have most time on do Chest/legs one day, back another. You can do other variations, but I've found that bench doesn't really detract from squats. So do something like, your chest workout then do your leg workout.
 

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Yeah, what quagmire said. Just add a few sets of incline bench and dips to your squat workout, or do Iron Addict's 2day split.

Day One:

Dips or Bench Press 2 x 6-8

Incline Press, or incline Fly 2 x 10-12

Military Press, Or Hammer Shoulder Press 2 x 6-8

Tricep (skull crushers) Extensions or Tricep Pushdowns 2 x 10-12

Heavy Abs 3 x 10

Day Two:

Pull-Up 3 sets to failure

Barbell Row 2 x 8

EZ-Bar Or Dumbell Curl 1 x 10

Squats 2 x 10

Deadlifts, or Stiff-Legged Deadlift 1 x 10

You could rotate squats 2x10 with deadlifts 1x10 every other week if you feel you're neglecting your back, or go and do 2 sets of deads if you feel up to it.

-shaun
 

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shaunuk said:
Yeah, what quagmire said. Just add a few sets of incline bench and dips to your squat workout, or do Iron Addict's 2day split.

Day One:

Dips or Bench Press 2 x 6-8

Incline Press, or incline Fly 2 x 10-12

Military Press, Or Hammer Shoulder Press 2 x 6-8

Tricep (skull crushers) Extensions or Tricep Pushdowns 2 x 10-12

Heavy Abs 3 x 10

Day Two:

Pull-Up 3 sets to failure

Barbell Row 2 x 8

EZ-Bar Or Dumbell Curl 1 x 10

Squats 2 x 10

Deadlifts, or Stiff-Legged Deadlift 1 x 10

You could rotate squats 2x10 with deadlifts 1x10 every other week if you feel you're neglecting your back, or go and do 2 sets of deads if you feel up to it.

-shaun
This is a 'looks' workout isn't it?
 

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Flyer said:
This is a 'looks' workout isn't it?
not at all. It's a good strength-based workout for overall hypertrophy. A 'looks' workout wouldn't include deadlifts or squats, and have more cable crossovers and tricep kickbacks. ;)

spes - do the 2day routine above. legs and back are more important to overall growth than chest, but you shouldn't neglect it entirely.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I dont claim to know anywhere near as much as IA experts, but if the compounds lifts are still improving every workout, why bother adding assistance and iso work?

Why not

Day 1

Squat
Bench press
Deadlift

Day 2

Squat
Military press
Row/pullup

Mixing up the order as desired. Hell you could probably get away with doing 'Squat, Bench, Deadlift' both workouts and make awesome gains.
 
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