"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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can I neglect chest/shoulders for now?

spesmilitis

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Is it alright if I don't do chest/shoulders for a while? Like 2 months? I keep missing my chest/shoulder workout cuz of my schedule. Afterall, legs/back is the most important to develop, right?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't have time for a three day split right now either. Just do a two day split instead. The day you currently have most time on do Chest/legs one day, back another. You can do other variations, but I've found that bench doesn't really detract from squats. So do something like, your chest workout then do your leg workout.
 

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Yeah, what quagmire said. Just add a few sets of incline bench and dips to your squat workout, or do Iron Addict's 2day split.

Day One:

Dips or Bench Press 2 x 6-8

Incline Press, or incline Fly 2 x 10-12

Military Press, Or Hammer Shoulder Press 2 x 6-8

Tricep (skull crushers) Extensions or Tricep Pushdowns 2 x 10-12

Heavy Abs 3 x 10

Day Two:

Pull-Up 3 sets to failure

Barbell Row 2 x 8

EZ-Bar Or Dumbell Curl 1 x 10

Squats 2 x 10

Deadlifts, or Stiff-Legged Deadlift 1 x 10

You could rotate squats 2x10 with deadlifts 1x10 every other week if you feel you're neglecting your back, or go and do 2 sets of deads if you feel up to it.

-shaun
 

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shaunuk said:
Yeah, what quagmire said. Just add a few sets of incline bench and dips to your squat workout, or do Iron Addict's 2day split.

Day One:

Dips or Bench Press 2 x 6-8

Incline Press, or incline Fly 2 x 10-12

Military Press, Or Hammer Shoulder Press 2 x 6-8

Tricep (skull crushers) Extensions or Tricep Pushdowns 2 x 10-12

Heavy Abs 3 x 10

Day Two:

Pull-Up 3 sets to failure

Barbell Row 2 x 8

EZ-Bar Or Dumbell Curl 1 x 10

Squats 2 x 10

Deadlifts, or Stiff-Legged Deadlift 1 x 10

You could rotate squats 2x10 with deadlifts 1x10 every other week if you feel you're neglecting your back, or go and do 2 sets of deads if you feel up to it.

-shaun
This is a 'looks' workout isn't it?
 

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Flyer said:
This is a 'looks' workout isn't it?
not at all. It's a good strength-based workout for overall hypertrophy. A 'looks' workout wouldn't include deadlifts or squats, and have more cable crossovers and tricep kickbacks. ;)

spes - do the 2day routine above. legs and back are more important to overall growth than chest, but you shouldn't neglect it entirely.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I dont claim to know anywhere near as much as IA experts, but if the compounds lifts are still improving every workout, why bother adding assistance and iso work?

Why not

Day 1

Squat
Bench press
Deadlift

Day 2

Squat
Military press
Row/pullup

Mixing up the order as desired. Hell you could probably get away with doing 'Squat, Bench, Deadlift' both workouts and make awesome gains.
 
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