Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Can I make it happen?

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I_Will_Win

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first off I am 6' 1" 350lbs I have a very very bad need to get a woman. I do not pursue anything in life but woman. I know how bad that is but I can't think about anything except getting a woman. Anyway I think I have a decent personality and I can make people laugh. So is there hope for me at my current weight? Of course I am working on my weight. But I have to have a woman soon. Can I get one?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes, you can.

If you see your weight as a problem all the women will too.

If a woman has a problem with your weight, it's just that... her problem, not yours.

That said, lose what you can.....It can only help.
 
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It might be difficult...
People tend to classify people by the way they look, and body language, at first sight... If the biggest nerd is a total dj, but looks like a nerd, he will be treated like a nerd at first... You cant change that...

That's why we talk all the time about clothes and body language...because they are important...

But that doesnt mean that you cant get any girl.. You can...but it will be really MUCH more difficult, than if you were thin...(depending on the girl that you want to get)...
 
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I've seen men with 300 pound women - surely a 300 pound man can get a woman! Men are more into the physical look of a woman than women are into the look of a man - we have to be aroused to perform the sex act!

Lose weight with the same drive and vigor that you have in pursuing a woman, then the women will come!
 
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I know it is hard, but first try to be happy without woman withyour friends and hobbies, then U will soon become one.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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