"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Can I make it happen?

I_Will_Win

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first off I am 6' 1" 350lbs I have a very very bad need to get a woman. I do not pursue anything in life but woman. I know how bad that is but I can't think about anything except getting a woman. Anyway I think I have a decent personality and I can make people laugh. So is there hope for me at my current weight? Of course I am working on my weight. But I have to have a woman soon. Can I get one?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yes, you can.

If you see your weight as a problem all the women will too.

If a woman has a problem with your weight, it's just that... her problem, not yours.

That said, lose what you can.....It can only help.
 

zimzum

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It might be difficult...
People tend to classify people by the way they look, and body language, at first sight... If the biggest nerd is a total dj, but looks like a nerd, he will be treated like a nerd at first... You cant change that...

That's why we talk all the time about clothes and body language...because they are important...

But that doesnt mean that you cant get any girl.. You can...but it will be really MUCH more difficult, than if you were thin...(depending on the girl that you want to get)...
 
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I've seen men with 300 pound women - surely a 300 pound man can get a woman! Men are more into the physical look of a woman than women are into the look of a man - we have to be aroused to perform the sex act!

Lose weight with the same drive and vigor that you have in pursuing a woman, then the women will come!
 
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I know it is hard, but first try to be happy without woman withyour friends and hobbies, then U will soon become one.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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