“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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can i get some examples of qualifying/social skills

derby1

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Ive noticed recently im getting quite good at talking to women in the supermarket etc,

can anyone give some pointers how to escalate, and do more qualifying?

so i dont give off a plutonic..interview vibe?

Bare in mind british women do not like cheese they are quite stoic
cheers
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No questions, only leading statements. Humourous.

"That's an interesting hairdo, what's it called?" - wrong approach.

"Check out your topping! I would call that The Waffle." - stolen from Neill Strauss.
 

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I will give it a go,

if ive already met a woman or know shes coming to date me, im on fire

otherwise im like a set of carburettors that need easy start
 

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Assume attraction, and act like you already know her. Tease her about things she does "all the time" even if you have no idea whether she does them or not. Learning about female nature via the Red Pill helps a lot here, as all women are hardwired the same. It's just the software that changes a bit.

One thing Mystery definitely got right is the three stages of seduction; Attraction, Comfort, Seduction. By skipping Attraction and starting with Comfort, you're a "nice guy" and friendzoned. By skipping Comfort and moving straight to Seduction, you're a "creep" unless you're super hot and/or famous.

By assuming she's attracted to you and already providing comfort through familiarity, you're already moving towards seduction, during the first chance encounter.

And put your goddamn hands on her once she's clearly comfortable. I like to put my hand on her shoulder and look at her like a film producer looks at his movie star; "You're mine. Together we can slay."

End the interaction either by instadating her ("I'm thirsty, let's grab a drink...") or saying her name and "...we'll continue this conversation."

Hand her your phone and get her to put her number & name in and give her a quick ring so she'll have yours, or if you're feeling more confident, take her phone and put your number in (saving yourself as "awesome guy" for fun) and call your phone. If you're feeling super confident, hand her your business card with your name and number and don't bother getting hers. "See you..."

Edit: When saying goodbye, right before I walk away, I like to kiss a woman on the hand. It's very divisive; either she will absolutely love it and practically fall in love with you there and then, or she will not like it at all and make it obvious. She could also exhibit no strong reaction to it, but inside she liked it or didn't. Don't worry about it either way. You aren't putting her on a pedestal by kissing her hand, you're giving her a taste of the kind of passionate, high value guy you are.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Derby I d say supermarket is tough. Why don't you try the local farmers market on a weekend. People have more time.
 

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ok i went sober about 5 months ago you see, so literally dont go out after 6pm unless to the cinema etc
 
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