“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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can i get honest opinion of my smv?

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I know im not a model but im not ugly i am overweight i am working on that i fit into large now im 5 8 wight 230.
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=70937092

Im not gonna get tattoos but i want to appeal to the masses in females i like to go concerts and bars etc.. Let me know what i can do to improve style? What i need to eatorwhati should do in gym. if not direct me thanks!

Also on tinder i only get fat *****es i sometimes on pof get decent girls i want to improve myself
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm not a girl, but I think your profile is pretty darn good. You may want to add a clearer/closer body shot, though.
 
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Thanks guys like a selfie or haveto be shirtless? Or just pic taken above waist closer? I am overweight with man boobs so yeah lol can i get honest score?? Howcome tinder i dont get alot of matches
 
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Thanks man well i wanted to use thoae because my friends guitar and i was with paulie shore i donthave alotofgoodpics u know??? I changed them arethose good now??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No, I think you need the one with you on stage because 1) It shows your whole body and 2) It shows you are cool.
 

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you're an average looking dude, short, chubby...I dont know man, what do you expect?
Besides, you try to hook up with girls online...I dont know how a girl is gonna want to meet you when she gets dozens of messages from guys that look like you...

I guess you should improve your social circle instead of focusing online.
 

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You are about a 6.5. That is because at your 5'8, 230 lbs., you are fat.

The good news is that you have more potential than the average guy. If you upped your wardrobe and dropped down to 170-180 lean muscle, below 12% bf, you would be cleaning up in the HB8, maybe 9, dept.
 
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Okay well can i use stage pic instead of mall pic? I dont like that one. Also can i get directed to where i can gain muscle lose fat? (i need a workout sched for mon-fri) and where i can get style improvement? How can i improve\add to social circle??
 

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If you go lift weights for 30-60 minutes a couple times a week and try not to eat as much junk food, that's all the schedule you really need imo. If you want more refined than that, go to the Health subforum.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You seem to talk about sex a lot in your profile, this will turn some off that might have given you a chance otherwise. Just my 2 cents.
 
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Is having a best friend who is basically really obnoxious and somewhat "special" lower your coolness or smv? If so what do i do do i have to not have friends around women? I took sex stuff off thanks for input
 

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You need at least one picture with some friends. To a girl guys without pics hanging around with friends are creeps.
 

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do a cut to loose the extra fat, and once you're around 14% bodfy fat, do a lean bulk.

For the routine, try "Stronglifts", and progress from there.

You can start the routine at the same time you start to loose fat.
 

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You look like you could pull off a crew cut. Your 'do doesn't really look like it knows what it's trying to say.

Save the printed t-shirts and plaid shirts for lad's nights and bumming around town.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LOL I am flattered that you copied my pof profile. I haven't used it enough to tell you for sure if all the 'about me' stuff works. I meant it to be a complement to the mma pic. I'm going for the "tough, but sensitive" image: http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=76958493

Your pics are ok, especially the one of you on stage. I'd probably add a pic of you with a dog or cat, to attract animal lover women.
 
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Lol yea dude ur **** is good

Which friends pic i uploadedis best i put them up?

Also i dont got lot of dough which style of clothes can i wear or buy that will appeal to the female masses?
 
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