"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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can i get honest opinion of my smv?

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I know im not a model but im not ugly i am overweight i am working on that i fit into large now im 5 8 wight 230.
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=70937092

Im not gonna get tattoos but i want to appeal to the masses in females i like to go concerts and bars etc.. Let me know what i can do to improve style? What i need to eatorwhati should do in gym. if not direct me thanks!

Also on tinder i only get fat *****es i sometimes on pof get decent girls i want to improve myself
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm not a girl, but I think your profile is pretty darn good. You may want to add a clearer/closer body shot, though.
 
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Thanks guys like a selfie or haveto be shirtless? Or just pic taken above waist closer? I am overweight with man boobs so yeah lol can i get honest score?? Howcome tinder i dont get alot of matches
 
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Thanks man well i wanted to use thoae because my friends guitar and i was with paulie shore i donthave alotofgoodpics u know??? I changed them arethose good now??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No, I think you need the one with you on stage because 1) It shows your whole body and 2) It shows you are cool.
 

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you're an average looking dude, short, chubby...I dont know man, what do you expect?
Besides, you try to hook up with girls online...I dont know how a girl is gonna want to meet you when she gets dozens of messages from guys that look like you...

I guess you should improve your social circle instead of focusing online.
 

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You are about a 6.5. That is because at your 5'8, 230 lbs., you are fat.

The good news is that you have more potential than the average guy. If you upped your wardrobe and dropped down to 170-180 lean muscle, below 12% bf, you would be cleaning up in the HB8, maybe 9, dept.
 
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Okay well can i use stage pic instead of mall pic? I dont like that one. Also can i get directed to where i can gain muscle lose fat? (i need a workout sched for mon-fri) and where i can get style improvement? How can i improve\add to social circle??
 

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If you go lift weights for 30-60 minutes a couple times a week and try not to eat as much junk food, that's all the schedule you really need imo. If you want more refined than that, go to the Health subforum.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You seem to talk about sex a lot in your profile, this will turn some off that might have given you a chance otherwise. Just my 2 cents.
 
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Is having a best friend who is basically really obnoxious and somewhat "special" lower your coolness or smv? If so what do i do do i have to not have friends around women? I took sex stuff off thanks for input
 

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You need at least one picture with some friends. To a girl guys without pics hanging around with friends are creeps.
 

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do a cut to loose the extra fat, and once you're around 14% bodfy fat, do a lean bulk.

For the routine, try "Stronglifts", and progress from there.

You can start the routine at the same time you start to loose fat.
 

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You look like you could pull off a crew cut. Your 'do doesn't really look like it knows what it's trying to say.

Save the printed t-shirts and plaid shirts for lad's nights and bumming around town.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LOL I am flattered that you copied my pof profile. I haven't used it enough to tell you for sure if all the 'about me' stuff works. I meant it to be a complement to the mma pic. I'm going for the "tough, but sensitive" image: http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=76958493

Your pics are ok, especially the one of you on stage. I'd probably add a pic of you with a dog or cat, to attract animal lover women.
 
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Lol yea dude ur **** is good

Which friends pic i uploadedis best i put them up?

Also i dont got lot of dough which style of clothes can i wear or buy that will appeal to the female masses?
 
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