"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Can I get a personal image consultant via PM?

tsmith2334

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PM me if you want to see what I look like, I'd appreciate any pointers. what you think and all that standard fare. If you're not interested, don't send a PM.

I frequent this site and have been registered over a year (and surfed without posting for the last four years), so I'm just trying to get advice on my looks in the most discreet way possible. Just let me know a little bit about you, maybe send a picture my way too or just your name and where your from. I don't feel comfortable sending my pic out to a random person or posting it here for everyone, so just tell me who you are first.

Thanks to anyone who feels like helping me out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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typical

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Umm no.

Mate your way too concerned about how you look to others then how to present yourself in a better way.

Which is on the edge of self esteem issues, go gym eat right train hard get a nice looking body and the rest will come. Work on your inner self and making yourself a better person, if you have a few extra hours at the end of the day/week pick up a hobby.

Once you become a interesting person and are going somewhere with your life and doing thngs people will start to notice your positve traits more then your negative.
 

darkme_legendary

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I'm just trying to get advice on my looks in the most discreet way possible. Just let me know a little bit about you, maybe send a picture my way too or just your name and where your from. I don't feel comfortable sending my pic out to a random person or posting it here for everyone, so just tell me who you are first.
It doesn't matter how you look for anyone else except yourself.
You worry too much. Better to work on having a good energy when talking to people rather than searching for how to look best.
At your stage, it's much better to develop the internal part. After that, if the external part needs any fixes you have plenty of time for it.
Looking at your best is important but has more to do with your internal stuff rather than to your cloths, hair bla bla.
 

tsmith2334

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To both of you who responded, it's just curiosity more than anything else. I have no problem helping others out with anything here so this is just asking for a favor if anyone is interested.

If you don't want to help me out, it's no problem. I just want to hear an opinion from the outside looking in. I have already gotten a few responses, PM me if anyone else is interested.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Prodigy746

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While i do agree that looks are not the most important, there is nothing wrong with a person trying to improve his look/style. There was a recant thread where a person posted a pic and he was not ugly but his style was horrible. He looked like a person from 1940's and there was many responses that he got and if he followed peoples advice it would improve his appearance by a long shot.
 
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