"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Can I get a personal image consultant via PM?

tsmith2334

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PM me if you want to see what I look like, I'd appreciate any pointers. what you think and all that standard fare. If you're not interested, don't send a PM.

I frequent this site and have been registered over a year (and surfed without posting for the last four years), so I'm just trying to get advice on my looks in the most discreet way possible. Just let me know a little bit about you, maybe send a picture my way too or just your name and where your from. I don't feel comfortable sending my pic out to a random person or posting it here for everyone, so just tell me who you are first.

Thanks to anyone who feels like helping me out.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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typical

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Umm no.

Mate your way too concerned about how you look to others then how to present yourself in a better way.

Which is on the edge of self esteem issues, go gym eat right train hard get a nice looking body and the rest will come. Work on your inner self and making yourself a better person, if you have a few extra hours at the end of the day/week pick up a hobby.

Once you become a interesting person and are going somewhere with your life and doing thngs people will start to notice your positve traits more then your negative.
 

darkme_legendary

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I'm just trying to get advice on my looks in the most discreet way possible. Just let me know a little bit about you, maybe send a picture my way too or just your name and where your from. I don't feel comfortable sending my pic out to a random person or posting it here for everyone, so just tell me who you are first.
It doesn't matter how you look for anyone else except yourself.
You worry too much. Better to work on having a good energy when talking to people rather than searching for how to look best.
At your stage, it's much better to develop the internal part. After that, if the external part needs any fixes you have plenty of time for it.
Looking at your best is important but has more to do with your internal stuff rather than to your cloths, hair bla bla.
 

tsmith2334

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To both of you who responded, it's just curiosity more than anything else. I have no problem helping others out with anything here so this is just asking for a favor if anyone is interested.

If you don't want to help me out, it's no problem. I just want to hear an opinion from the outside looking in. I have already gotten a few responses, PM me if anyone else is interested.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Prodigy746

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While i do agree that looks are not the most important, there is nothing wrong with a person trying to improve his look/style. There was a recant thread where a person posted a pic and he was not ugly but his style was horrible. He looked like a person from 1940's and there was many responses that he got and if he followed peoples advice it would improve his appearance by a long shot.
 
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