"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can I get a personal image consultant via PM?

tsmith2334

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PM me if you want to see what I look like, I'd appreciate any pointers. what you think and all that standard fare. If you're not interested, don't send a PM.

I frequent this site and have been registered over a year (and surfed without posting for the last four years), so I'm just trying to get advice on my looks in the most discreet way possible. Just let me know a little bit about you, maybe send a picture my way too or just your name and where your from. I don't feel comfortable sending my pic out to a random person or posting it here for everyone, so just tell me who you are first.

Thanks to anyone who feels like helping me out.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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typical

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Umm no.

Mate your way too concerned about how you look to others then how to present yourself in a better way.

Which is on the edge of self esteem issues, go gym eat right train hard get a nice looking body and the rest will come. Work on your inner self and making yourself a better person, if you have a few extra hours at the end of the day/week pick up a hobby.

Once you become a interesting person and are going somewhere with your life and doing thngs people will start to notice your positve traits more then your negative.
 

darkme_legendary

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I'm just trying to get advice on my looks in the most discreet way possible. Just let me know a little bit about you, maybe send a picture my way too or just your name and where your from. I don't feel comfortable sending my pic out to a random person or posting it here for everyone, so just tell me who you are first.
It doesn't matter how you look for anyone else except yourself.
You worry too much. Better to work on having a good energy when talking to people rather than searching for how to look best.
At your stage, it's much better to develop the internal part. After that, if the external part needs any fixes you have plenty of time for it.
Looking at your best is important but has more to do with your internal stuff rather than to your cloths, hair bla bla.
 

tsmith2334

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To both of you who responded, it's just curiosity more than anything else. I have no problem helping others out with anything here so this is just asking for a favor if anyone is interested.

If you don't want to help me out, it's no problem. I just want to hear an opinion from the outside looking in. I have already gotten a few responses, PM me if anyone else is interested.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Prodigy746

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While i do agree that looks are not the most important, there is nothing wrong with a person trying to improve his look/style. There was a recant thread where a person posted a pic and he was not ugly but his style was horrible. He looked like a person from 1940's and there was many responses that he got and if he followed peoples advice it would improve his appearance by a long shot.
 
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