"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can I confide with her friend?

Caesar

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Would this work to my advantage? I had the opportunity to meet the good friend of the girl I am interested in. I know how girls love to talk. Maybe she could put in a good word for me?
Would it be smart to befriend her?

Caesar
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GirlCrazy

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That kind of behavior just makes you look weak. Don't do it. If you like her, tell her. If one of her friends asks you if you like her, say that it's between you and her.
 

RaMar

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Its always nice to become friends with her friends but its probably not a good idea to be pouring out your feelings for the girl to her friend.

I just try to get on her friends nice side because quite frankly it makes things much easier then if her friends were to hate me. Then your chances are slim and none.
 

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Yeah it's ok to befriend her friends. Hell you could find you like her friends better than her, and it never hurts to have a plan B.

Just don't use them to express interest - that should be done one on one.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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blinkwatt

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the person a couple of post above me is right,it makes you look weak. if your lady finds out you confind in her friend,she may not like it either. BEST ADVICE IS TO KEEP IT ON THIS SITE OR DONT TALK ABOUT IT AT ALL.
 

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Doing anything except approaching her is easier, isn't it? Forget going through her friends, writing notes, getting your friends to talk to her, ect. ect. Quit being such a wimp and approach her directly.
 

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dude, NEVER say anything to a girl's friend that you don't want to get back to her. EVER. just don't. I've had sh*t happen to me from that too many times to do it again.
 

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Originally posted by lebRambo
dude, NEVER say anything to a girl's friend that you don't want to get back to her. EVER. just don't. I've had sh*t happen to me from that too many times to do it again.
Agreed...... VERY agreed.

As the others say, make sure you end up on the nice side with her friends, but DO NOT under ANY circumstances, ask for advice/help from these persons.

as the ninja said, you'll only appear scared/weak, which is a big no no.

//Deus
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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